There are situations where a large woman attacks a smaller man, and in those cases the man’s injuries are worse, and he should be able to report them to the police without being ridiculed, as men often are. However, that wasn’t the case here. If she did hit him, it didn’t cause great pain; not enough to warrant such a crazed attack.

Imagine your sister coming home badly bruised, without clothes, because her maniac husband got angry with her and she had to run away from home, and telling you “but it was my fault, I wouldn’t stop yelling at him and I hit him too”. Would you be like “oh you hit him? Well then it was definitely ok for him to kick your ass”. NO. RESTRAIN if you must, but never hit a woman.

I thought she was lying.
I was looking straight at her, and I thought she was lying. So little was believable about her… her eyes, her body language, the way her words came out. Not to mention the way she kept contradicting herself (the whole “pushing into a wall” thing was sadly, unintentionally hilarious).
Based on that, the fact that Chris seems to dodge right around what actually happened and every aspect of it, the family member of Chris who called into a radio station a day or so after the incident saying “a person can only take so much”, and the fact that I simply don’t believe that he went THAT hard on her just because she was yelling (and that he would randomly bite her fingers – that screamed “hitting in the mouth” to me) I think that something more went on than what she said.
If this is the case, I believe that it is disgusting to possibly throw this boy’s career under the bus just to sell that album (cause that’s all I really see her doing). I also think it’s disrespectful to all domestic violence victims to lie about the situation and pretend one is speaking up for them for purely personal gain.

Concerning the actual interview, people and their misconceptions about when she should have said something or not and how her reactions should have been in the interview are also amazing to me. People react and respond to situations differently. She has every right to come out and tell her story now (since it is hers to tell) and honestly, I was extremely moved by her responses – didn’t think she was cold at all. What I saw was someone who clearly is used to being that strong woman on the outside and this situation blew all that up for her. When she talked about the flashes and the nightmares – wow – and the embarrassing truth about going back to him afterward… those were powerful moments to me. But I guess I’m in the minority on that.

Now that it’s “over” accept & recognize that obsession is NOT passion. I used to wild out (slap the shit outta, punch, push, headlock) on my ex (and despite how it sounds, he wasn’t a poodle, stood @ 6’1, 215lbs)….at 1st he liked it (yeah I know it sounds twisted…cause it is)….he was turned on to see me wild out over ish…..it started out with him restraining me, then slamming me on the bed to get me off him….then the bed became the couch, then a push into the wall, yall get it….IT ESCALATED. I never got Rhianna’d (never had to walk around bruised & beaten). I did see that look in his eyes she talked about (other ladies admitted to seeing that look too on other sites I visit). THAT LOOK (should things ever even have to get that far out of control) SHOULD BE YOUR CUE TO END THAT ISH. So what I learned from my situation, #1 that ish ain’t cute, #2 be real about hittin’ a dude: If you hit him and he does NOTHING, you’re going to think he’s a PUNK. If you hit him & he gives you the BIDNESS, you should end it. Moral of the story: don’t put your hands on a man.

Like a said, I don’t know either of them…but I don’t think CB is a “monster”…time will tell tho. If he does it again to her or anyone else I’ll be SMH & be disappointed in him. Rhianna tho, I think is a lot like I was at her age….wildin’ out on a dude…..havin’ CRAZY passion….ish escalated & she was left wonderin’ why “he” took it too far……